Thanks folks and apologies for the brief initial message, it was hastily tapped out in the parking lot while taking the little one out for our weekly Sunday Costco run! But time was of the essence to get the question out there in case I'd missed a magic bean solution.
I had previously looked at the zero TA method and it was tempting but the main thread and many others on the subject never really fully recommend it. For the same reasons as an acid wash - long term burning away of plaster and not just the stuff you don't want to, plus general shortening of the plaster lifespan. Also "how acidic" and "how long" seem to be judgment calls.
But the real reason is that I had planned to wait a little longer for the drain but the solar company called on Friday asking if they can bring forward the install of our pool solar system by 2 weeks... and I really didn't want to send super high CH and salt water through those tiny tubes, or have to temporarily put the pool back out of service once they've gone, so this weekend became a very quick drain and refill exercise.
The spot cleaning went "ok" in that I was able to reduce the nodules so they aren't scratchy under foot, but the pumice and little squirts of acid did leave obvious patches around them. The pumice I have is super soft, even with acid it did basically nothing on the tile line and grout.
I think I'm going to need to come to terms with cosmetics not being absolutely perfect. And will consider running CSI on the very low end for a long period to see if we can tease some of that calcium off the surfaces

I should count my blessings that it went ok and that the plaster surface is generally smooth and didn't freak out being exposed.
Hope you all had a good weekend and thanks again for jumping into my thread at no notice.