One thing that will be helpful for you, that would be to fill out your signature. See this link for info:
Create Your Signature - Further Reading This will give us information on your pool size, your pool surface, etc. and helps other users quickly assess your specific details and offer help quicker. See mine or any of the above for examples. Knowing all the details in this case will help us tweak those settings for an easier way to manage the water which, as you point out, seems to have gotten a little out of control.
Seeing your pool math logs, I can see you have a plaster pool, about 18k gallons. Not sure of the salt cell, but to get your chlorine up to level quickly, even with the cell, liquid chlorine is a good idea. A salt cell (when properly sized) is good for maintaining, but not as good for a real boost. According to pool math, 1 gallon of 10% bleach will raise your chlorine by 5.4. You could add that, and with the cell adding each day, and burning off 2-4 of chlorine per day, could maintain the 5ppm of chlorine. However, if your cell only produces 2.3 per day, running 24 hours per day, it seems undersized for your pool and you still may need to supplement with liquid chlorine just to keep up with the 5 needed.
1,750 24/7 seems high, and probably not needed. A lot of us will run the pump low and slow 24/7, but at a level that keeps the flow through the salt cell and producing chlorine. As
@mknauss points out, keep lowering the rpm until the flow rate warning is on the cell, then add 200 to that. Keep an eye on it for a day and make sure the cell keeps producing. Some have had to go up by 300 or 400 to find the perfect flow, but your cell will continually produce the chlorine and keep the pool skimming.
Not sure of automation, but if you tweak the settings for the water features, when you use them, the pump would ramp up to meet the demands of the features, cell, and still skim the pool.