As you found, the
Sodium Chlorite Shop has it as 80% in solid form for $37 to $49 per pound depending on size. This is similar in price to
Sigma-Aldrich at $49 per pound.
As for Dichlor, there are LOTS of products and it's cheaper to get "chlorinating granules" in pool sizes than in smaller spa sizes where your link is $6.49 per pound. At poolgeek.com you can get
GLB Granular Chlorine for $6.26 per pound or in
50 pound size for $4.14 per pound or you can get a less expensive
Pool Solutions brand at 50 pounds for $3.16 per pound.
I wouldn't try mixing these dry in an attempt to try and recreate SoftSwim Assist directly. There's no need for that because all it is doing is making a solution of chlorine dioxide in water. So instead, I'd add these separately to a large bucket of water in the right proportions by weight 20:8 of sodium chlorite to Dichlor dihydrate so 5:2 or 2.5:1 (remembering that the sodium chlorite you are getting is 80% by weight while the Dichlor is 99% so the weight ratio of these products would be 25:8 or roughly 3:1). Then add that bucket of water to the pool water.
This link shows not only the ingredients, but the instructions for SoftSwim Assist imply that these are tablets that dissolve slowly when you have them in the skimmer and pump basket with the pump
off for 6-12 hours. You basically add some with the pump on for a minute then turn it off so that the product does most of its work in the piping. If you use a liquid form of this, you'd add some of it slowly in the skimmer with the pump running then turn off the pump and add some more.
You don't have compression equipment so can't exactly recreate the tablets. See
this hazardous substance fact sheet regarding sodium chlorite. In many ways it's similar in hazard to chlorine so you want to avoid skin contact and do not breath the flakes/powder. In water when chlorine dioxide is produced, this is a gas but it is about 10 times more soluble than chlorine. So I would use SMALL quantities for the bucket (see below) so that you don't produce a lot of chlorine dioxide gas (it will smell similar to chlorine). It's more soluble in cold water and it won't outgas as much in cold water so use cold water in the bucket (cold tap water should be fine). You do not want to make the bucket solution much more concentrated than around a 1% chlorine dioxide solution which would be 10 grams/liter of chlorine dioxide. So in a 5 gallon bucket, you'd add no more than 400 grams (about 14 ounces weight of pure sodium chlorite so around 17-18 ounces weight of 80% sodium chlorite product and around 6 ounces weight of Dichlor -- add the Dichlor first and mix). You can scale this down to a gallon if you want (3.5 ounces weight of 80% sodium chlorite with 1.2 ounces weight of Dichlor dihydrate). I don't know the weight of the tablets that were 20% sodium chlorite with 8% Dichlor.
This chlorine dioxide solution won't last so you would use it right away and should keep it out of sunlight since that would have it degrade faster.