Thank you Landmark...I've been reading the forum for about 2 months now, just browsing...the info is invaluable and GREAT FOLKS here. It's our first pool, too...husband used to have a big hot tub and wood deck he installed and built himself in his first home.
We have an appointment with Brent at CastleRock for Friday the 11th. Really nice guy to talk to...I'll definitely PM you when we get more into the works...thank you for the offer! We have a small backyard with an 8 foot easement, so our pool will only be about 20 ft. long by 10 ft. wide, plus a spa....but want to pack a lot of good stuff into that small place. I think you'll be very glad you didn't compromise on the pool..the other stuff can come later.
We're shopping around for a couple of specific palm trees for the end of the pool...eek. Reeling from sticker shock there, so we're researching two different ones that look a lot alike, but one is cheaper. I'll ask them to bid on major landscape things...dig beds in the easement for plants and see what their palm prices are. We can do a lot of the planting ourselves - I pretty much know what I want. We're also taking things in stages...Pool first with no compromises, then outdoor BBQ/kitchen (we're building it ourselves), and finally a covered porch added to the back.
Hey, I hope you got your Margaritaville machine...there were 11 more left yesterday!

It's gonna come in handy to make me forget the $$$ we'll spend...oh well...you only live once...got enjoy. Keep the pics coming!