It’s likely the deck and skimmers are not sealed and so excess water leaks under the decking. Don’t let it do that or lots of damage can occur.
I was about to say the same. If you don't know where the water is going, it's not going anywhere good! It could be running into some gopher hole, washing away dirt from around your pool, or from under your deck, or even from around your home's foundation. All bad.
Pump the water out manually before it gets that high, at least until you solve the mystery.
If there was an actual overflow system, it would be obvious. Either a hole or grate in the edge tile, a hole lower in your pool wall, or a hole in your skimmer. That's about it. They don't hide them, because you have to maintain them: clear them of crud and leaves, etc. Mine once got plugged up at the exit end! Plants started growing into the pipe and sealed it up. Took me a while to realize what was happening and why my pool was so high. Der!
Mine is an equalizer tube (a hole lower in my pool wall), that connects to an auto-leveling system. But those are obvious, too. They have a lid, similar to your skimmer's lid, and are usually somewhere in your deck. Mine is right next to my skimmer. They can be elsewhere, like up to 30' away, but that's not common. If the holes underwater all all returns, or maybe one vacuum port and the rest returns, you don't have an equalizer tube system.
If you don't know how to manually control your overflow level, just ask. We'll sort you out.