I have a troublefree pool and now the neighbors are wanting to enjoy the fruit of my labor. I have allowed by mistake, them to partake. And then I come home to the neighbors in the pool swimming without asking. I am a pushover most of the time. Today July 4th they come up while we were having family over and asked if they could swim. These neighbors, are just neighbors never have even talked with them as they are new to area. Am I being an arse?