If it were my mom, I would just figure out a way to make it work. I would probably buy some camp soap (Link: http://www.rei.com/product/869386/?...482256000&msid=Cjh52tWO_dc|pcrid|28464597400| ) It is biodegradable an doesn't have perfumes and such in it. If any of us think too much about what goes on in our pools, we would never go in them. Of course, I have 2 kids and I have come to realize no matter how many catalogs they send to me with adorable little kid photos, kids are skeevy. Your mom can't be as skeevy as the kids that swim in my pool.