Jeff, you are very close to understanding what I said and seem to have a good knowledge of your filter
The multiport is that beast that sits on the outside of the filter and let's you select between 'filter', 'backwash', 'WASTE' (

), 'rinse', 'closed' and 'recirc'. You are correct in that the 'manifold' is what the top of the grids fit into and goes down on that 2" pipe sticking up!
For the most part, there are 3 causes for DE re-entering the pool:
1) The grids are ripped/ torn - have some hole in them to let DE through - as you just replaced them, this is VERY unlikely
2) The multiport gasket is warped or ripped. In this case the DE should only come back into the pool when you are replenishing the DE -- however, if the gasket is severely damaged, there is a chance that while trying to filter the water, the filter is also trying to backwash and waste the water and some of that is getting into the return line. (all the water flowing through the multiport is going into all the ports - check to see if water is coming out of the backwash port)
3) The manifold - either the manifold is cracked, or the grids aren't fully secured, leaving a gap between the top of the grids and the manifold, or the o-ring on the 2" tube is gone, warped or pinched, If you have a fairly steady release of DE, that would be my first choice.
I sincerely hope that this helps :!: If I can be of further service - feel free to call upon me
