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Most people vacuum on the standard filter setting nearly all the time. If you have a particularly large amount of debris, it is occasionally worth vacuuming straight to waste, but that is rare.
The multi-port valve should have a waste setting, which will cause water to go straight to the waste port on the valve. Many people use a flexible hose that they keep coiled or rolled up connected to that port when vacuuming to waste.