Vik,
In the Spa mode, with the pump running, water should force the check valve shut.
In the Pool mode, with the pump running, water should flow through the check valve. I am not sure what the flapper looks like when water is pushing the check valve open. But during this time, the spa should be spillover into the pool, so you should be able to tell how much water is flowing through the check valve.
In the Pool mode, with the pump shut off, just the slight pressure of the water in the spa, "should" force the check valve closed. This is when they tend to leak as there is not a lot of pressure to hold the flapper shut.
Thanks,
Jim R.