Thanks to you guys for PMing each other.
What we don't want is something like ACME Xyz Pools in Dallas ripped me off. Or, my PB ...Marty's Crappy Pool Construction stole my money, ruined my pool, and my life. We simply can't and don't have the time to referee these shouting matches, especially when said PB shows up to dispute it. When that happens, it ruins the thread and the spirit of the forum. Then...we have to defend ourselves to said PB or OP for taking sides. Also, people ask us what they should do, and the forum really isn't the place to hash out these business issues. Nor are we able to advise because it's not our place, and if it were, we only get one side of the story usually. No one is going to mind you saying "Hey, I had a great experience with BillyJoe&DaddyMacs Crazy Pool Designs". There isnt a fight and it's not a negative for the forum.