TA is not subject to other chemistries when adding. If you start with 40 and add enough to bring to 60, you'll have 60 ppm (provided testing, dosing and pool volume is correct) regardless of pH or any other measurement. How much the pH changes is affected by the current TA level (and borates level) at the time of the change.
If you could list the dimensions and shape of your pool or use the Estimating Pool Volume tool on Pool Math, that would maybe give some reinforcement to the pool volume estimate.
As far as pH versus TA adjustment order... When pH is below 7.0 that should always be the priority to adjust first. Either with aeration (if TA is high, aeration will bring pH up) or basic chemical additions (soda ash, washing soda) if TA is also low. Then worry about adjusting TA. You'd rather have the pH swung up a bit high, then adjust TA and observe the pH response rather than leave the pH low while adjusting TA.
From what you've described, it sounds correct what you've done so far. If you can post test results as you proceed, that would be great.
Pool Math does state both dosing amounts by weight and by volume and I believe CajunGuy used the volume number from the Pool Math page. I myself never like using the volume option for solid, powdered or granular chemicals because of the density variation. I always use weight for those. I think those volumes listed are good estimates and likely "close enough" but I'd rather go by weight. I also hate that there are ounces and fluid ounces... confuses the weight versus volume dosing.