Our 1970s pool is about 35,000 gallons, on the north side of our house, full sun all day long, in OKC. I'd calculated our sf once, I remember it was bigger than our first apt, somewhere in the 800-850sf range. Deep end is 7.5ft. We keep it open year round, but it's only warm enough to swim May/June - Sept/Oct. No cover.
My estimates of our costs are as follows:
Bleach, 121 oz, 8.25% Walmart brand $2.90/jug + 8.375% sales tax (for the most part, 12% pool liquid chlorine is not available in my area. None of the big pool stores/big box stores carry it, so I just go to the grocery store weekly to stock up). I need one jug day most days in the summer, my CYA has been between 25 and 45 at various points this summer. I need more bleach with rainy weather, and much less when the weather gets cooler. I'm guessing at a $90/mo bleach cost during my swim season, then far less once the weather cools off. I didn't test my water much over the winter, just kept an eye on the pool. During weird warm spells last winter, we added a little bleach, but for the most part, we chucked a floater in the water and tried to keep the leaves out using our robot.
Our pool has flooded several times this summer, so have used more bleach than anticipated. The last time, I loaded up the bleach (I wasn't precise, not trying to shock/SLAM, just trying to bump it up since there wouldn't be circulation for a while), turned the pump off, and added one container of floc ($16.99). It cleared the pool in less than a week and compared to the two weeks it took me last time (with the pump on constantly and shocking and brushing), plus the savings in having to shock only one week instead of two more than offset the cost of the floc (plus electricity savings in pump hours).
With bleach overruns during flooding times (could be avoided if we had better drainage around the pool, which is on the to-do list) I'm guessing we've spent an add'l $150 on SLAM bleach over the course of the summer above and beyond regular maintenance.
Baking soda: I have needed to add some baking soda earlier this summer, maybe $10 total.
Borax: $0 none needed this year
Stabilizer: Spent about $30 on 8lbs of CYA at the beginning of the summer, IIRC.
Electricity: We run our pump during our utility's low period, $0.05/kwh, in two four hour increments, 9am-1pm and 9pm-1am, and I think this costs us about $12/week in the summer. In the winter, it's set to go if there is a freeze and I cannot recall how many hours I ran it on a consistent basis last winter. I probably had it run a few hours overnight, and in non-summer months we pay $0.09/kwh. We do not have a new or fancy pump, I think it's 1hp or 1.5hp and came with the house.
Overall, I guess we are paying about $150/mo during swim season (guess 6 months last year, closer to 4 months due to weirdly cool weather this year), which is worth it to us since we use our pool nearly every day, and hang by the pool instead of going to movies, out to eat, whatever.
For our large pool, on my wish list is a Stenner pump, simply to release us from the EVERY NIGHT task of adding bleach. It's become part of the routine "alarm set? garage door closed? pool bleached?" but it is kind of a PITA after three months of nightly nagging of DH. It's not that big of a deal to procure the bleach weekly, it can be inconvenient, sure, especially if Walmart is nearly out of bleach on Sundays as often happens, and we can only get 4 jugs, so need to go back by Wed. to get more.
The hauling isn't such a problem, they aren't heavy (although, the cashiers joke with us and we tell them we are cleaning up a murder scene when we have a cart devoted completely to bleach), but the nightly chore is a drag. I'd love a Stenner pump that let's me cut it down to even weekly or every two weeks. I am not that enthused by the SWG, even if I didn't have my rock wall and coping (it's already falling apart, the SWG couldn't hurt it anymore) but because my neighbors did it for their large pool and said it couldn't keep up during last summer when it was so hot and drought-y. I understand you need to oversize the SWG for the pool, and don't know if they did, but to have done all that to automate and STILL need to add bleach? Bummer.
Good luck!