Craig,
I have a couple of rent house pools that have DE filters.. I keep hoping they will die, so I will be "forced" to replace them with large cartridge filters..
I never backwash anymore.. I basically clean them about every 6 months.. I can do this because I run VS pumps at low RPMs so my filter pressure is usually below 4 or 5 lbs. I removed the MPV from both of them which is working great for me.
The point being that backwashing every 30 days is beyond ridicules in my opinion.
The 25% pressure increase is a great guideline that works for most pool owners.. I find that a better indicator for me is the "feel" of the return water.. As the filter gets dirty, you can feel the return flow decrease. As long as I have good return flow, then I don't worry about the filter.
Thanks,
Jim R.