one said I should just use Cal Hypo. I asked about it raising other levels adversely
Yep, your calcium will slowly go up.
When I said I didn't want the maintenance of sealing any stone, it shut the door on stone coping, so I said that we could then have the SWCG, and he pointed to our wrought iron fence and metal patio furniture and said they would be ruined by salt.
I am anti-metal furniture! A friend bought us a couple of lounge chairs as a pool opening gift. Just the rain caused some rust around the base and stained the deck so I have moved them. I will stay with the polymer stuff just in case in the future, Polywood.
He said they do not keep up in our Oklahoma sun, so have to manually add chlorine anyway, and are prone to needing lots of repairs.
Mine does fine, the generator needs to be appropriately sized. Mine just cruises along although if we have a party with lots of swimmers I will still add extra via bleach. Also CYA levels need to be appropriate, mine runs around 80.
Again, he said we should use pucks but he said the CYA in his pools stays a manageable 50 with the rate of evaporation/top off here, so was at least conversant with the issue and said it hadn't been a problem in his experience.
The water will evaporate but the CYA will not, it will climb and you will have to dump 1/3rd to 1/2 of your pool water every couple of years. Ask me how I know.
Don't know about bluestone. Our stone was sealed, I don't think it will ever need to be resealed. If you wanted to be extra-anal you could seal your stone on all 6 sides with Stone-Tech before laying and use the special mortar they recommend to adhere to the sealed surfaces. We did not do this.