If you have a pool and spa which is connected by a spillover then you only need 1 pump, filter, heater and SWCG. 95% (or more) of the pools are built like this. There are 3 modes
Pool mode - suction from the pool and return to the pool. Both the heater and SWCG can support this. The heater can heat the pool if needed, it just will take time.
Spa Mode - suction from the spa and return to the spa. Both heater and SWCG can support this.
Spillover Mode - suction from the pool and return to the spa. The Spa then overflows into the pool. This chlorinates both bodies of water and can heat both bodies of water (however the heating will take longer). You can run the spillover mode all day or many of us just run it 2 times a day for 30 minutes to refresh the spa. A topic for another discussion, but a spillover creates aeration and aeration can increase pH which can affect the balance of the Water. So it is manageable if you wish to run it more often, just need to be aware of the effect of a lot of aeration.
Furthermore, if you are in the spa for 3 hrs, that is fine. The pool will be fine as well. After the spa, simply turn it back to pool mode.
Maybe the PB is not telling you something or there is something else unique that is not evident in the drawings of the pool.
If the SWCG is placed before 3-way valve that directs flow to the either the spa or the pool then the SWCG will chlorinate either one. In fact, the SWCG comes with a setting for both Pool and Spa modes because you would lower the generation on the spa being a smaller body of water.
You can do this without automation (all manual) but automation system will simplify it by moving the automated valves on both the suction and return sides and adjust the SWCG as needed depending on what mode you are in.
Hope all of this helps you discuss it with the PB and explain why he thinks you need 2 sets of equipment with a connected spa to the pool.