This makes me feel better!
I totally understand the coaches position- she needs to fill her roster- its her job.
I do however feel a little guilty about waiting considering I see her on a regular basis. Her kid is on this travel team & she is also a coach of another age group in the same club. Its a little awkward
I am sure my kiddo feels the same way. She of course is also worried that the offer will go away. I have tried to reassure her.
I personally think the coach was just trying to get her offer in/make a connection early before my daughter started going to all these national tournaments where there’s lots of coaches looking. I don’t fault her at all (its her job) but it is what it is & I feel like we need to keep our options open for now. Surely she understands that $ doesn’t grow on trees. I explained our situation to her when we were on official visit. I also want to avoid my girl having to “de- commit” if something better comes along as she’s a do what she says kinda person.