Starting a new pool and spa build and can’t finalize choices! There are so many things to choose from! My family picked a tile we liked from samples only to go to Nobile Tiles website to see it in a picture and NOT like it anymore. It looked so different installed. we are equally confused with coping options. We were given 3 choices of Lueders (grey or white or chocolate). We opted not to go with flagstone because of what we heard of flaking. For pool finishes we have it narrowed down to Crystal stone smooth - tropical isle, aqua blue or carribean blue. How do you make such a big decision that we will be living with for several years to come?!