Couldn't help noticing this in the very first post. Kind of amusing.
Honestly, if you were a little more patient and polite with responses that you don't think are on target, and just refocus your question, if necessary, you'll get a lot more useful feedback from the experts who freely volunteer their time on this site.
I thought about that. By trying to give a lot of information and my thought process, it could have been summed up A LOT better and probably gotten more focused responses which is what I was hoping for. My point is that is doesn't help to tell somebody what they should have done.
It found lots of info on lowering CYA but it didn't seem to be compiled all together quickly, so to make this thread useful to other people in the future:
The CYA has to be removed by changing the water, either by draining the pool or reverse osmosis.
Some people think lye will remove CYA. No.
RO is probably too expensive unless you live in an area where water is expensive and there aren't a lot of restrictions on pool draining.
If you pay for water, depending on what you are charged it may only cost $30 to $60 for 15,000 gallons. If you have very hard water, you may have to change out your pool water once in awhile anyway.
Draining an entire pool fully isn't a good idea:
Vinyl it can mess up the liner.
You could float (lift concrete) the pool if there is groundwater present.
So doing partial drain and refills still is the best option for me.
Other places on the net recommend draining from the bottom of the pool, since CYA has a higher specific gravity than water. Wether or not this will actually get rid of more CYA per partial drain I am not convinced of.
If you can find a way to separate the newly added water from the existing pool water with a barrier seems like a good idea. Others recommended tarps or plastic that stretch over the sides of the pool where the newly added water stays on top of the barrier while you drain. Think of rainwater that stays on top of a pool cover where the water just stays on top of the cover. This seems like a good idea depending on how much you want to invest in trying to rig something up that will segregate the water enough.
Also, in my particular case, besides worrying about floating my pool, I would never drain my pool all at once because I live on a hill and know that a neighbor at the bottom of the hill has had foundation problems, (probably sinkhole). Even if it is a remote possibility, I wouldn't want to anyway contribute to that problem for somebody else.
Something else I figured out is that I can actually drain my pool to waste without running the pump. My waste line has a long, downhill stretch which started siphoning out to waste before I had a chance to start the pump. With storms here, there are lots of rain, and without electricity somebody could do this to keep up with rain.
The pool actually looks good now, and after doing a bunch of partial drains and refills only about 7% of the water has probably been changed. It looks like my bandaid worked. I have until next spring when I pressure wash the pool deck again to get my CYA down, but will probably get it done a lot faster.
Since I see a lot of testing in my future, here is a free basic iOS app that saves pool chem levels over time: Pool Time