Surprise today! John came to do the yard and ask if I wanted to open up the filter!
I took a few pics with my phone to show you what it looked like. You will see it looks like grayish brown gravy with pepper flakes and some white flecks.
John didn't like my comparison. Lots of little bugs came out, tiny bits of grass, what looked like tiny leaf particles all bleached out. All very small in this dark water.
I had the hose in it for over an hour and a half, moving it around and also mixing the sand with my hand. When it seemed to run clearer I would mix it more and more came out.
The last picture you can see through it but also still see particles. At this point we covered it back up and backwashed and rinsed. An hour and a half was enough for me. The backwash in the view glass was pretty clear with a some seed like pieces in it. I ran it till there were only a couple in it then rinsed. Thoughts were the sand may just need changing it is so dirty with small debris. Opinions appreciated here.
John also questioned whether I have enough sand in the filter. It's about half way up. He says my gauge is reading to high at 15 too. He says it's due to not enough sand. However, I have seen others on the forum with clean filter pressure at 15. If you would evaluate my situation yet again I will certainly appreciate it!
There is a pic of my arm after being in the sand and water. You can see the particles pretty well. The stuff was sticky. Odd because we don't wear tanning lotion much. The grandkids do wear sunblock of course.
Thank you all for your help!
Joan