I've gotten a real situation I need some advice on.
We have a family friend who is a stay at home Mom (Chris), lives a couple miles away. Early this year she invited us up to eat for supper. After eating the kids started in on how they want to come over to swim. Pool was not open yet. I was like, well the pool isn't even open yet. My wife pipes up like every year, you are welcome anytime!! Chris says to me that if you need anything please let her know. I tell her the pool runs on Bleach borax and baking soda, bring some over when you swim....... Three months later still no supplies. Swam nearly everyday, along with hosting her daughters birthday (swimming portion of the party) at our house. Brings her kids friends over to swim also. This is always when we are at work.
I complained to the Chris, about how the neighbor kids would jump on their trampoline asking to swim as they "breached" the fence line of site. Which they do to her also when she is over.
Chris stated to my wife, that since I'm a (Butthole) about people swimming over there (my house) she would only come over when I was not there.... I told my wife I have no idea how to respond to that. Because before I never felt that way when she and the kids would come over. I merely complained about the neighbor kids because how they would jump and ask, which they do to Chris also.
I'm really ****** that she would say that, since I'm the one who maintains the pool. How do you go about uninviting people??? My thought is to give them a sheet of what it cost to operate the pool, and ask them to pay 1/2. I'm good friends with the husband who is currently deployed. Maybe suggest they buy their own pool?
This is our 5th year with the pool, Chris and the kids have been doing this for 5 years and in that time no supplies.