Hi all. This has been weighing heavily on my mind, so I am throwing it out to the folks out here who may have some ideas on what I can do for a friend of mine. She has CA that has recurred and metastasized to two other places. She was 14 years CA free....
I already plan on sending humorous cards and anything tacky that I can find as she would appreciate those.
I pray for her everyday, too. I will give them emotional space as they are going through a rough time.
I don't want to question her or ask too much or dwell on the maudlin as she or her husband will share when they are ready or when they can. Other neighbors and family are bringing over food and helping out that way. They already have a housekeeper and a lawn service and no small children that need to be carted around.
I would like to start a Caring Bridge site for her, but that is again something that will have to be okay'd by her or her husband. I am truly at a loss for what I can do and I feel helpless. She is less than 60 and waaaaaaaay too young to bear this awful recurrence.